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The naked truth

Nudist mag or nudie mag? The difference between advocacy and pornography is all about context

Jennifer Parks, edmontonjournal.com

Published: Friday, April 04

PayPal's recent decision to revoke services to the Federation of Canadian Naturists reveals just how misunderstood nudists are in our society.

The e-commerce giant has cancelled its subscription processing contract with the FCN, claiming their club magazine takes nudity too far because it depicts naked minors.

"It's an incredibly ignorant stand that shows they haven't done their research as to what a naturist is," says Karen Grant, President of the Federation of Canadian Naturists.

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"Child pornography is a very specific and sad part of our society right now. But this is not it. I'm a mother of two kids, and I wouldn't be a nudist if I felt my child were in any danger."

Like any special interest magazine, the FCN's publication, Going Natural, promotes a hobby or lifestyle, and provides information on holiday destinations, products and other tips relevant to that lifestyle.

"Yes, the magazine does carry some pictures of naked families, including children, but there's nothing pornographic or gratuitous about them. For some reason, in our culture the word 'nude' evokes sex. But is that the only reason we undress?" asks Grant, who lives in Edmonton.

PayPal says the content of the group's magazine is "obscene" and violates their acceptable user policy, according to e-mails sent by PayPal to FCN.

"PayPal prohibits all account holders from buying or selling any sexually oriented goods or services involving minors or made to appear to involve minors," says PayPal spokesperson Jamie Patrichio.

"While we generally do allow nudist websites to accept payments with PayPal, when those sites feature children, we will typically take a stricter approach."

If you've ever skinny-dipped or lounged around at home in the buff, there's something to be said for letting it all hang out. As adults, many of us worry that our parts are imperfect: too big, too small, too stretched or too flabby. But young kids haven't yet learned to judge themselves so harshly. Intuitively, they know that being naked is perfectly natural. They take to it like fish to water, and embrace the freedom of being in their own skin, which is all too often lost as one grows up.

That is why, as a society, we celebrate childlike innocence, and why we protect it tooth-and-nail from the ugly realities in life, like pedophiles or child predators. But is PayPal taking things too far?

While one long-time member of a local nudist association applauds our society's desire to guard children against exploitation, he says this is a case of misplaced concern.

"I don't know if PayPal did it out of political correctness, but someone thought, 'adults and kids -- nude? Uh-oh. We don't want to be associated with that.' There will always be people who equate sex with nudity. No point in trying to explain your lifestyle to the closed-minded," says Perry, 48, a two-decade member of Helios Association in Tofield, Alberta.

"Lust," he adds, "is in the eye of the beholder, not in a naked child at play."

If so, then society's prurience can be summed up in a Google search for the words "naturism" or "nudist," which quickly inundates a person with pop-up windows hawking every nude sexual fantasy imaginable.

And it probably doesn't help that a magazine like Going Natural is the easiest legal access a pedophile has to nude material. But why should wholesome and family-oriented groups like FCN have to pay the price for others' ignorance or perversions?

"It's a fine line, what's pornographic or not," says Patrichio. "PayPal is erring on the side of caution. Whenever there are children involved, we want to be stricter with our policies."

Alberta Film Classification Board director Paul Pearson says there are no hard and fast rules about discerning sexual content in his line of work.

"We ask why there's nudity in a film. Is it gratuitous, or integral to the story line? Is it sexual or non-sexual nudity -- because there is a difference," says Pearson. "It's all about context."

An honest look at context is what's missing from PayPal's assessment.

"Generally, naturism is typically non-sexual nudity," concludes Pearson. "And non-sexual nudity tends not to be rated as high as sexual nudity."

So why isn't PayPal making that distinction, wonders Ryan, 23, a born-and-raised nudist.

He says he wouldn't trade his childhood days of skin-bare freedom at the Helios nudist club for anything.

"It was just a place to hang out and meet other kids my age, play games and swim," he says. "We just happened to be naked a lot of the time."

You can't compare their brand of nakedness to porn at all, he adds.

"It's not related. We're just people who don't like tan lines. It's about comfort, and being comfortable in your own skin," says Ryan. "As kids, nudism taught us to be ourselves and not pass judgment on others. It was a great way to grow up."

The PayPal vs. nudists case evokes the tale of the psychoanalyst whose patient only saw sexual images in his ink blot tests.

"What do you see?" asks the doctor, holding up a card. "I see a naked girl," says the patient. Displaying another ink blot, the doctor asks, "What do you see in this one?" "I see a naked girl eating ice cream," replies the patient. Flashing a third card, the doctor asks, "And now, what do you see?" To which the patient replies, "I see a naked girl on a bike."

"Why are you such a pervert?" condemns the doctor. "What do you mean?" responds the puzzled patient. "You're the one with all the dirty pictures."

The naked truth, in this case, has less to do with skin-bare minors than with fear and blame over our lost innocence. FCN is merely a scapegoat for society's anger at those who reduce our children to the objects of sexual enjoyment. And PayPal is pointing their finger at the wrong target.



COMMENTS ON THIS STORY
Patti Grand Cedar, BC
Sat, Apr 5, 08 at 02:41 PM
I think Paypal has the right to make whatever business decision they deem to be aligned with their comfort zone legally. I support their thoughtful business ethic, and believe they acted on behalf of the majority of their clients. Personally while I applaud the right to be naked, and do my housework in the buff, I do not appreciate that photos of naked people are available to those who may not share the purest of views. I do not want to have myself or any of my family on view for indecent reasons by some perverted mind. This is one of the reasons we will not partake in shared sights to bare our personal lives with the world.
DB
Sat, Apr 5, 08 at 02:42 PM
Jennifer is absolutely correct but she should also have mentioned the graphic that is part of t"The Naked Truth" was used very successfully in the 1940s as the logo for a suntan lotion company ! My how times have changed as we, by default and neglect let the "wing-nuts" of society push humanity into another of its 'dark ages.'
Gerald
Sat, Apr 5, 08 at 05:05 PM
That's typical ignorance. The old nudity is bad and sinful nonsense. People who have NO idea of what a nudist lifestyle is, should either get informed, or be removed from positions where they can exercise their ignorance on others. That first paragraph from the Pay-Pal spokesperson says it all. Sexually oriented, utter ignorance, and it is offensive to have other's ignorance deny other people's enjoyment of the naturist lifestyle. It's the 21st century, not the Victorian era!
JG
Sun, Apr 6, 08 at 09:43 AM
I respect nudists, but I have to say that Paypal has made the right decision. Whatever the original intention of the photographs, you have no idea where they are going to wind up. I have seen enough porn sites to know that these innocent pictures of young children have an ugly way of working their way into the most repugnant of websites. Its quite common to see tiny pictures of children taken from naturist sites offered up as "teaser" photo's right next to pictures of bestiality, "poop eating", rape, torture, and old people abuse. I think the average Naturist has no clue just how evil the world can be and sometimes people like Karen Grant need to be protected from their own innocence.
Naturistspacedotorg
Sun, Apr 6, 08 at 10:19 PM
Stupid truth indeed! The world is full of surprises and the secret naturist, who tends to explore country side and other areas not usually explored by 'normal' people and who also present an attractive target by being naked, tend to attract all manner of interesting creatures, many of which are intend on biting, stinging, eating and generally making life a misery for any unfortunate who passes by. Naturist looks like you and I and come from all walks of life. You will find it to be a relaxing lifestyle that is free of the daily stress we all experience. Naturist groups like naturistspace.org are looking for people who are open minded and want to enjoy the company of others of a like mind. If you find nudity offensive for its own sake, ask yourself WHY.
AnneFromBuffalo
Mon, Apr 7, 08 at 11:24 AM
It's obvious that ignorance and intolerance abounds in our society. I have been a naturists all of my 47 years as has my husband. Include my parents and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and their offspring, and we've got over 20 naturists in our family, alone. Aside from the seemingly few 'open-minded' people we've encountered, most people assume (or just "know") that there's some type of sexual deviance going on at "...those so-called nudist camps." They intuitively "know" that we're "messing up our kids, psychologically." And, they somehow "know" that sex is behind our "hobby" -- all without ever stepping foot into a naturists' realm or experiencing things for themselves. Most people's assumptions are based on nothing but their own insecurities and proclivities. C'mon people, before you start spouting off about how naturism is "bad" (or whatever), do some real research and find out the truth. It's the ignorance (and arrogance) of those who "know" that screw up things for everyone else. And, a business that has a 'near monopoly' in the online payment market has an assumed duty to show tolerance and acceptance to its clients -- lest they become discriminatory toward them. For businesses that can't accept credit cards themselves, PayPal is practically the only game in town. Being a monopoly carries with it more responisibility and sensibility -- just ask Microsoft. There will always be those who will misuse or abuse just about anything -- from the Sears catalog to a naturist magazine to a jar of peanut butter -- we cannot simply hide in our caves or ban all jars of peanut butter simply because there are morons out there. The same holds true for naturist magazines. But, PayPal, in their own misguided way, is basically denying FCN the only real option to continue business online.
Mark
Mon, Apr 7, 08 at 12:31 PM
This might have been avoided if Paypal had bothered to contact the FCN, instead of just revoking their service. One has to wonder if PayPal will now also revoke their services to gun dealers and video game companies. My guess is no, since we all know there are no perverts who are into that kind of stuff. As for pedophiles, they will get turned on by any image of a child, clothed or not. If Paypal is so interested in protecting children, then they should work with agencies who crack down on kiddie porn.
Dave Fleming - Toronto
Mon, Apr 7, 08 at 08:16 PM
As a dedicated protective naturist for 20 years, I belonged to a resort club for 7 years and during those years, became impressed with the protective attitude that most naturists have. We have a new Offical 10 year old clothing optional beach, that dispite, what happens on the internet, Toronto city council voted 100% infavour of this beach after a 3 year pilot project. The point here is that we and government and companies cannot let what other people do out in the world prevent us from participating in a wholesome fun and totally relaxing environment with likeminded very happy people. I, for one, will never give it up, but I will always be ready to chase away the iidiots and defend our beloved naturist life. It's about the freedom to be one with nature, the wind, the sun, the water and get reconnected with our place on Earth. We should be supporting the naturism mindset which teaches showing equal respect for all regardless of age, color, gender and skin shapes. A truely utopian society. Why would I leave that because of what other people think or say or do? Does not make sense to me. What Pay Pal has done to try to 'protect' us is like closing down a street to cars, just because someone else drove badly and killed some poor innocent. Well, the logical move would be to close the street to all car traffic, to 'protect' the rest of us. At that rate, thousands of streets would be closed. NO, we don't do that because we want to be given the responsibility to look out for ourselves. We should not accept companies taking over the our responsibilities because they will always get it wrong and target the wrong group. What government should be doing is shutting down porn sites period. We would not be having this discussion if they did this.
Malcolm Boura
Sat, Apr 12, 08 at 06:47 AM
PayPal, no doubt with the best of intentions, is actually harming children. and in at least two ways. National figures for teenage pregnancy rates, age at first intercourse, use of condoms and just about every other indicator relating to sexual behaviour and body image make interesting reading. Try comparing prudish countries such as the USA with countries such as Denmark and The Netherlands. PayPal are reinforcing the perception of children as sexual objects. There is a growing trend towards making all photographs of children illegal. For example an architect friend of mine told me that they are not allowed to include children in publicity photographs of the school buildings that they design.
It's Easy
Fri, Jul 25, 08 at 11:29 PM
We all know this is an example of ignorance (and possibly stupidity), often displayed by corporate-america in their deference to the the lowest common denominator in the human species. It's very simple: Boycott PayPal.
Tom
Tue, Jul 29, 08 at 09:22 AM
I can think of no better way to spend my day off then to be at home naked, I wake up, get my coffee, do some chores, ...Naked. where I live, its much cooler, certainly more relaxing. as far as what I may look like? well, to quote a phrase by Peter Green, " I can't help about shape i'm in I can't say I ain't pretty and my legs are thin. But don't ask me what I think of you, i might not give you the answer you want me to".
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